LaKesha Womack

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All things do not work for the good of those who love the Lord…

In the 28th verse of the 8th Chapter of the Epistle to the Romans, we find a familiar piece of scripture that is often quoted by Christians…

And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him…

One of my problems with people who quote scriptures is that they often leave off the important piece of information that actually makes the difference.  If you read the entire 28th verse, it states…

And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.

I hope that you can see the difference in meaning when leaving off this tail end of the scripture.  I see people all of the time who think that because they love God and call themselves Christians that things will work in their favor.  They say and do nasty things but end it with “Be Blessed” or some other Christian reference as if to say that their love for Christ justifies their actions.

Here’s the skinny… many times we can believe in God, we can have a relationship with God, we can be doing good things but if we are not living our purpose and doing the things that God has called us to do then no, all of those things still may not work out in your favor.   If you haven’t found your purpose in life or answered the calling that God has placed in your life then this may be hard to understand.  Before I answered my calling, I thought I was living the good life.  I was blessed and things were going ok because God was preparing me for what was next.  Once I heard the calling, I tried to take my time getting back to God but let’s just say, he wasn’t really feeling that.  Once I began to live according to HIS purpose and not my own; the blessings that I was receiving in the past paled to compare with what came next.

It doesn’t matter where you are in your faith walk, you must get to know God and read his word for yourself.  Don’t count on people who quote parts of scripture for your salvation.  Find that scripture and read the entire book (not just the passage or the chapter) for yourself so that you can have a clear understanding of what was going on and the context of the scripture so that you can learn the lesson that the scripture is trying to teach you.

I almost often tell congregations when I’m speaking that many of us proclaim to love God and that He is the head of our lives yet we know nothing about Him except what other people tell us.  It’s almost like being infatuated with a celebrity.  You read about them, hear other people talking about them and see them doing the thing that makes them “special” but you don’t know them personally.  When we are truly in love with someone, we want to know as much about them as possible.  We try to spend as much time with them as possible.  We get upset and begin to feel neglected when they are not able to make  time for us.  The same should be true in your relationship with God.  If you are truly in love with Him, you should not want to rely on what other people say about Him.  You should have a burning desire to know Him for yourself.  When you do and begin to get in tune with the calling and purpose for your life, it won’t matter what other people say or think about you.  Your life will be turned outside in – you won’t be focused on what’s outside as much as what’s happening on the inside.  You won’t have to tell people that you are Christian, they will be able to see that glow from within.

I could go on and on but I’m going to close with a quote that was very popular on my FaceBook page this week.  I got the image from a BBM group – Praying Parents.

 

Judge not…

You know how that Christian saying goes… Judge not lest ye be judged.

One day a thought came to me.

There are so many people who walk around with smiles on their faces, trying to be positive and encouraging to others but no one knows what hides behind that smile.

There are many more people who walk around angry, snapping at everyone who crosses their path and no one knows what is really going in the head of that person or in their life.

We spend so much time trying to decide who is good, who is bad and passing judgement on the decisions of others when it is impossible to truly know what is going on in someone else’s life.  Even your closest friend, soul mate or lifelong partner has somethings in their mind and heart that has not been revealed to you.

Our duty should not be to pass judgement on the decisions that others make because they will ultimately reap the rewards or pay the price but to be patient and kind because underneath all that you see, you never know what is really going on.

Reflections: My Faith Is My Foundation

I am not ashamed to admit that less than a year ago I was not nearly as comfortable witnessing about my faith as I am now.  I was afraid that talking about my faith might offend someone who believed differently than me.  Even when I started this blog, I tried to keep my faith out of it.  I began to ease it into the conversation with my Christian and Cool segment but still struggled to embrace my beliefs and spent more time questioning it.

Diamond is a jewel symbolizing Jesus, the (priceless) jewel; who is our Savior and Lord. The diamond is “superimposed” upon the cross which is a symbol that Christ is our foundation. The Cross is a symbol of Calvary where Jesus bled and died for our salvation. The Cross bridges us to our precious jewel of salvation – Jesus – and the open cross represents the “Victory” of salvation.

What changed? I’m not sure.  I took a break from the Christian and Cool writing because I didn’t know what else to say, I couldn’t find the right words for those Sunday posts, there was a block within me.  I spent the past few months anticipating a change in my ministry and reconciling within myself how that change was going to effect me.  I am a member of the AME Zion denomination and we have a Young Adult in Christian Ministry (YACM) department that ministers to 22-40 year olds through prayer and mentoring.  The YACM has a national (or connectional as we refer to it within the denomination) steering committee.  In July I attended our Christian Education Convention where leadership for our national committees were elected and those leaders will serve four-year terms.  Most of you that know me, know where this story is going.  I was elected to the committee as the South Central Chairperson, which means I will be working on ministries in Alabama, Florida and Georgia.

Trust me… I didn’t think I could handle one project especially one of this magnitude because starting a company or joining a Board of Directors is much different from making a committment to help build God’s kingdom.  Although I am a part of this committee, I am “officially” accountable to God for my actions and the work I do.  As I began to mentally prepare for this position, things in my life began to change.  I stopped having so many questions about my faith and began to embrace it.  I will admit that I still have less traditional views on Christianity than many people but I have accepted that my faith is my foundation.

I believe our society has compartmentalized faith to such a degree that many people think their faith is separate from every other component of their life.  It is almost as if it has its place –>>> over there rather than it being the base of everything that we do.  I feel as though some people that I was once close to, I am not close to anymore and some things that were once ok with me, are not any more.  I will never judge anyone because that’s not my job but I am finding myself ministering to more people and my faith is the starting point for a lot of conversations.  I still have some old habits that need to be broken but I am honest about it and don’t try to be perfect.  I want you to know… I am a work in progress.  Key phrase “in progress” which means I am moving forward but not there yet.

Sometimes I find myself saying things that I never imagined so boldly professing about my faith but it feels so good to not have to hide that part of me.  I am excited about what is in store for my ministry and moving toward more Christian-based business consulting because I want the people that I work with to experience the same level of joy and success that I have… not in material gain but establishing themselves as Christians doing the right thing at all times knowing that their blessings will manifest from there.

Thanks for taking the time to learn a little more about me :)

Battling Demons

One evening while out to dinner at a buffet-style restaurant, I noticed two little girls, who appeared to be sisters, prancing around the restaurant in their swimsuits.  I was surprised that they didn’t have on any type of cover-up and as is typical with swimsuits; their booty cheeks were hanging out.

I tell this story because I started to think about the demons that people battle with on a daily basis.  I imagine that there were some pedophiles in that restaurant who may have never acted on an urge but seeing these little girls may have caused those demons to rage from within.  If something tragic happened to those little girls, I would not blame the parents but I would like to think that parents should do all that they can to protect their children, which includes ensuring they are properly covered in public.

I also began to think of my own demons that I battle on a daily basis.   Read more…

The Perfect Chrisitian

I love talking to people because I learn new things every day.  Not only do people share facts and experiences with me but they also share their theories on life.  I don’t always agree with them but I do like to take some time to consider how they came up with their opinions.

One evening I was speaking with a minister friend and she shared a theory about Christians that someone else had shared with her.  They were discussing why some people don’t go to church and the person said that their reason was because they didn’t feel as though they could measure up to the Christians in the church. 

This really made me think about how we portray Christianity.  The whole premise of my Christian and Cool blog is to explore my struggles and triumphs in my walk with Christ.  I freely admit that although I have some good days and bad days, my faith never waivers.  However, we have some Christians that are afraid to admit that their walk is not perfect.  They want people to think that once you accept Christ as your Savior that everything is going to be perfect, that He will heal all of your ails and remove all of your stumbling blocks.  From my experience, this is very far from the truth.  In fact, I believe that Christians struggle more than non-Christians do because they have accepted the charge to be their best self and have to struggle with many human emotions including lust and greed in their journey.  Non-Christians, on the other hand, have more freedom because many have not accepted an ideal lifestyle to try to live up to.

While watching the Celebrity Apprentice this season, Maria commented that after meeting Cyndi Lauper, she was disappointed because the human Cyndi had not lived up to the idealized pop star that Maria grew up with.  In a way, I think this is how many people feel about Christianity.  They feel that once you become “saved” the heavens will open up and everything will be perfect because that is the vision that many have grown up with.  However, your Christian walk will be filled with trials and tribulations.  So what’s the point?  Taking the journey or having a Christian faith will give you a foundation of morality and the faith to sustain when those trials and tribulations come along.  Yes, you can have this foundation and faith without being a Christian but there is also a fellowship.  Speaking from my personal experience, my fellowship with other Christians keeps my strength in the faith and holds my foundation together.  I am sure that I could do it alone but going to church on Sundays and discussing Biblical principles with others, helps me to see that I am not alone in my struggles.

Christians are not perfect people.  We are just sinners who fell down but looked up to the Heavens from which our strength comes and we got up.

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