LaKesha Womack

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The cost of freedom

Considering today is the 4th of July or Independence Day, I thought it appropriate to share my views on freedom.

In high school, I was a math and science nerd.  I love spreadsheets, formulas and experiments.  I also loved English and Creative Writing classes (no surprise) but History and Geography…. OMG!!! I could really care less about dates and who did this or who that.  I have an understanding of the overall history of the world and events that helped to shape our culture however I never really thought it important to store those dates and names in my brain.  I feel ok with my general understanding.  Anyway, I say that to tell you that this won’t be a history lesson.

When I think of freedom, I think of the men and women that fought and died for many of the liberties that we take for granted today.  I feel sad that future generations may never fully grasp the level of sacrifice required for racial and gender minorities to attain the sibilance of equality that we have today.  Granted there are many racial and gender issues still facing our country, despite those who think an African-American President and female “almost” winning the Presidency have somehow cured the mental disease that plagues many Americans.  In fact, I think those accomplishments in some ways have heightened those tensions because a segment of our society does not respect the fact that we are all created equal.  There are men and women who are still fighting for our liberties.  They are not only fighting on foreign soil but many of them are fighting in boardrooms, classrooms and courthouses to maintain freedom for each one of us.

The other freedom that comes to mind is my spiritual freedom.  I realized a long time ago that many people are slaves in their minds.  They don’t need physical bondage to keep them from achieving their goals, traveling outside of their community or simply formulating an opinion.  Many of the people are shackled in a mental prison because they cannot find joy in life.  That joy may come from your belief in God or it may come in just believing in a higher power but often it comes from having knowledge.  It does not matter who or what you believe, as long as you realize that the world is bigger than you.  It doesn’t matte if you have a GED or PHD but it does matter that you focus on learning more today than you knew today so that you have something to teach and contribute to those around you. When you are free in your mind, you are able to think for yourself and operate on a much higher level than being involved in petty bickering, backstabbing and gossip.

What are my keys to freedom?

  • Understand what freedom means to you. Freedom to me is the ability to go where I want, say what I want and do what I want.  However, you have to remember that just because you can doesn’t mean that you should.
  • Exercise your freedom. Just like faith without works is dead, so is freedom without exercise.  Keeping your freedom bottled up is the equivalent of enslavement.  Your greatest freedom in America is the right to vote.  I hate to hear people complaining about issues and then say they don’t vote.  If you see a problem in our society, you have the freedom and opportunity to do something about it.  In most cases, you can do so without fear of harm or recourse, a luxury previous generations did not enjoy.
  • Celebrate your freedom. When you are truly free and living your passion, the joy becomes contagious and people want to be around you and bring positive energy toward you.  I love having the choice to work on a project or with a client because I am not a slave to credit cards or debt so I can make decisions based on what makes me happy and not what I have to do.

I’m not sure how we evolved from celebrating our freedom to bbqs and parties but American culture has a way of attaching food to any celebration.  I hope at some point today, you will take a moment to think of what freedom means to you and what you can do to live a little freer than yesterday.

I don’t look like what I’ve been through…

In the third chapter of the book of Daniel, a story is told of three men who refused to worship their king (notice the lowercase of the word “king”) and the golden idol that he created because they recognized God as being their true King.  They proudly told the king that they did not fear his punishment because they knew their God would deliver them from this circumstance.  Because of their stance, their punishment was to be tied up and thrown into a furnace heated seven times more than it would have normally been heated.  While in the furnace, the king was told that there were four (notice four, not three) men walking around, inside the blazing furnace, unbound.  Upon seeing this, the king called the three (back to three) men to exit the furnace.  As the king and his officials gathered around the men, they noticed that the men had been untouched by the blazing furnace, except for the straps that bound them.

I hope you all can see where this is going.  Many people look at me and my life and think that I have a great life.  I do, but only because of my faith in a God whose grace and mercy ensure I don’t look like what I’ve been through.  Some days I feel like I have been through hell and back because of the demands of my clients, the attitudes of random people I encounter and even dealing with my own self-talk.  It is at these times, that I have to remember that God walks with me and talks with me when I put my faith in Him.  A lot of us look like the hell we are going through because we have little faith.  We only want to praise God during the good times and wonder why He forsakes us when things go wrong.  God allows us to suffer to test our faith.  He wants to know if you truly believe or if you are just a Convenient Christian. 

We are bound to a world of sin and misery yet freedom can be ours if we place our faith in God and take comfort knowing that He is with us during our good times and bad.  You will never be placed in a situation that won’t make you stronger, if you (this is important) decide to walk in the light.  It is so easy to get caught up in all of the things that go wrong because let’s face it, life is rough.  However, walking in the light, finding the good in every situation requires that we change our lens and retune our focus.

I don’t look like what I’ve been through.  I still walk around in the furnace (everyday life) but I know that God is going to deliver me from whatever is thrown my way.  I don’t feel the scorch of everyday life because I am covered by grace and mercy.  Ask yourself today… do you look like what you’ve been through?  Can people look at you and tell you can’t afford to pay your bills?  Can they see the lust in your eyes for someone that will never be yours?  Can they sense the bitterness toward the world in the venom you spew with every word?  If so, you might want to examine whether God is in your furnace or if you are allowing yourself to be scorched for no reason.  God doesn’t want any of His children to suffer but He will allow things to get a little heated in order to strengthen our faith.  Do you look like what you’ve been through?

Special thanks to Rev. Dwight Guthridge for bringing this passage and perspective to my attending during a worship service in Dallas TX.

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