LaKesha Womack

Archive for the tag “Relationship”

[Book Preview] Celebrating the Journey: Rediscovering Me by Ashley Hill

Yes, you read it correctly… it is a book preview and not book review

Recently, I had the pleasure of speaking on the phone with Ashley and she was telling me about her soon to be released book and I was so excited that I had to share it with you all… BEFORE it was released.

In “Celebrating the Journey: Rediscovering Me”, Ashley tells a story that is very familiar to many women.  She tells about how she grew up knowing all the things she could become, all of the things that she was capable of but how one relationship with the wrong person derailed her from becoming the person God created her to be and the person she wanted to be.  Ashley bravely shares her story of how this relationship affected her and how she got back on track because she knows that there are women today in the same situation.  She believes that if she can find her way out then maybe this book will inspire you to find your way out also (now do you see why I was so excited??).

The book launch is scheduled for June 2012…

For more information on the book and updates, follow us:
Celebrate the Journey Facebook Page!
Twitter Hashtag: #celebrate

Ladies, it’s ok to think like a man…

I know some of you ladies won’t agree with me on this but I think that its ok for us to think like a man…

Some of the arguments that I have heard against this statement are…

  • I don’t need to think like a man, I need to think like God…
  • If I was meant to think like a man then I would have been created a man…
  • I don’t need to think like a man, a man should think like me…

Here is my opinion…

Many of you have heard of Steve Harvey’s book, “Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man“.  Some of you have read the book while others may have only seen the movie.  Regardless of your opinion about his opinion on the subject, you must realize that one of the keys to communicating in any relationship or situation is your ability to understand the other person’s perspective.  If you go into every situation expecting to be understood but having no desire to understand then don’t be surprised when there is a breakdown in communication.

I believe that men and women process information differently and this theory has been tested, written about and discussed for years.  No matter our communication styles, we all expect to be heard, respected and understood.  When a lady thinks like a man,  she is taking into consideration that if she presents him with a problem; unlike her girlfriend who won’t mind chatting for hours about the single subject, he will more than likely be seeking a solution.  She also takes into consideration that most men don’t read emotions very well, they believe you when you say that nothing is wrong.

Thinking like a man doesn’t mean that you stop being a woman or throw your religious values out the door but it means that when you communicate, you are thinking of not only your side but also his.  In a successful relationship, he will also be trying to think like you so that he can understand, respect and hear what you are saying…

Jasmine Powers gives us the dish on the upcoming Love & Beauty Unconference

You guys know that I am super nosey and/or quite curious…

I also love people who think outside of the box and aren’t afraid to try and do things in ways that others aren’t.  After all, there isn’t that much originality left so when someone finds it, I like to embrace it.

Enter Jasmine Powers… She reminds me of one of those people who can put on anything with her sassy attitude and no one will say a word except, “dang, there’s something special about her.”  Although Jasmine is involved in a million projects, she’s coming on The LaKesha Womack Show to discuss the upcoming Love & Beauty Unconference.  Yeah, you read it right… the “unconference”.  I have no idea what that means and that’s why we are bringing Jasmine to the show to tell us all about it.

Tune in live on Thursday, April 12 at noon CST/ 1p EST (or you can always click the link and listen to the playback) —>> The LaKesha Womack Show

Don’t have access to a computer?  Call in from your phone (646.929.2031) and listen to our thirty minute conversation… it will feel like your eavesdropping without the fear of getting caught.

Get to know Jasmine…

Jasmine Powers is a dynamite digital marketing strategist and publicist, event planner for beauty and biz, blogging, and tech events, blogger and artsy girl with a flair for things colorful and bright. A business consultant to the stars and to clients whom she treats like royalty. You’ll find her not only writing copy, press releases and articles, but blogging for CulturedGirlsOnly.com her blog of all things creative including crafts, cuisine, and visual, literary, and performing arts. She writes about accessories at ThaHotness.com, she served as the 2012 Program Director for Blogging While Brown and is the Executive Director for Love & Beauty Unconference meet the bloggers event for beauty, relationship, and fashion bloggers and their readers. She resides in Los Angeles and enjoys reading, writing and creating.

Jasmine Powers
CEO
J Powers Marketing & Publicity     

Connect:

www.twitter.com/jasminepowers
Skype: jasminepowers

About the Unconference…

Natural Hair Parade is creating the UNCONFERENCE of the year bringing you what you need to upgrade your sexy.

Bloggers the world over in the fab world of beauty, fashion, and relationship blogging will participate in a hip, sexy and engaging event talking about subjects you WANT to talk about.

  • Showcasing the hottest lifestyle bloggers on the planet in makeup, natural hair, and fashion
  • Bringing the finest brothers on the block speaking about how to bring it as a gentleman and offering tips on how to win their hearts
  • Featuring some of the illest female writers and authors out there showing you how to keep it hot and what’s not
  • Daytime programming full of digital marketing and money making resource greatness
  • Breakout sessions, demonstrations and makeovers
  • Not just a ladies event, so fellas come out
  • Includes refreshments, spirits, exhibitors, speed dating and facilitated networking sessions.

In the City of Brotherly Love, you have to get to love and beauty. Our unconference will send you home hot like fire!

Women just don’t understand… Late Night with LaKesha & @everydaydabrand

Women just don’t understand…

Most men probably think it once or twice a day and on Late Night with LaKesha this week we are going bring in Jermaine Smith, who has branded himself as Jay Everyday, to discuss a few of things that men wish women understand.  I am so excited and ready to learn…

Join us on Tuesday, November 1 from 10p to 1030p CST


http://BlogTalkRadio.com/LaKeshaWomack

call in to listen live – 646-929-2031

Post your comments on the blogtalkradio show’s page, on this blog or tweet us ~ @LaKeshaWomack @EveryDayDaBrand using #LWBTR

Meet Jay Everyday…

Behind every face associated with a name is a story. For some their story proves that being triumphant is still possible even in the midst of challenges, hardships and the toughest adversities. Born on Christmas Day in Queens, New York, but raised in the East New York section of Brooklyn, was a boy who was oblivious to the circumstances in which he was about to endure. Unbeknownst to him as he made his entrance into the world was also the realization that he would grow up to be a man who would later be associated with titles such as playwright, director, producer, Editor-In-Chief, on-air radio personality and Internet radio station owner. He once said, “We live our life forward but to understand it you have to look at it backwards.”

If we relive history from present day to his conception, Jermaine “Jay Everyday” Smith’s story could easily be a non-fiction novel written by a New York Times Bestseller.  However, facts can never be fiction, thus what you see is real; one man destined for greatness though statistics would have said otherwise. And today, the very obstacles he once faced in his formative years assist him in writing, directing, and producing stage plays that have received accolades and acclaim at various venues across the United States. Jermaine “Jay Everyday” Smith lost his father to Cancer at the tender age of four, leaving his mother to become a single parent to him and his sister. Yet, even more troubling was the fact that she was battling a drug addiction which spanned over the course of twenty plus years.

Though his grandmothers and aunts played a role in shaping his development and offering some nurturing due to his mother’s situation, the difficulties of dealing with his fractured family structure forced him to withhold years of emotional pain and perplexity. From witnessing drugs being used in his home as a child, to taking on the responsibility of watching over his sister, Smith grew up faster than most children. Though the allure of the streets could easily captivate someone of his circumstance, that sort of lifestyle didn’t spark his interest. He spent a great deal of time writing, which in hindsight served as a way to release those repressed emotions.

As the years progressed and his mother’s situation didn’t improve, Smith found himself facing more tribulations in his life in 2003. His two year old nephew who suffered from sickle cell died after he was wrongly treated and misdiagnosed with having a sickle cell attack when it was later discovered he had a fever. Leaving the family in turmoil and grief, it was at that pivotal point that his mother decided her lifestyle had been detrimental for far too long and decided it was time for God to navigate her life. In awe by his mother’s choice and her spiritual healing, Smith also recognized that a breakthrough needed to happen for the sake of his own future and that of his family, and also gave his life to God.

For the past seven years God has been the center of his family unit to include his mother’s now drug free existence. In 2005, after focusing on working out some of the issues that plagued his ability to understand who he was and dealing with those feelings, he began writing skits and presenting them to the pastor of his local church, who suggested he turn them into stage plays. Thus the comedic, dramatic, inspiration family drama stage play, “A Piece of Me”, was born.

Throughout its fifty performances, it was the first African- American produced play to be shown at Playhouse on the Green in Bridgeport, Connecticut since 2002 and the first African-American produced stage play ever to be performed at The Shawnee Playhouse, which was built in 1904. “A Piece of Me” has received several recognitions, been responsible for almost a hundred audience members turning over their life to Christ, and won noteworthy awards to include, the “Best Stage Play Award” in 2009 at the Holla Back Gospel Music Awards in New Haven, Connecticut, five nominations at the 2008 Tiffany Gospel Awards in New York and a review and feature on Essence.com in May 2009. Smith’s second stage play, “Cooking in Yesterday’s Grease”, has been reviewed in the Examiner and continues to be performed across the North Eastern Region of the United States. “Cooking” was well received on the You Tube channel as ETB produced Web-series in early 2011.

Creating a name for himself and a marketing brand Smith set his sights on radio. After attempting to get on mainstream radio to promote his stage plays and being unsuccessful, he sought out the opportunity to create his own Internet radio station, Everyday Radio. With a fully equipped, station in Brooklyn, NY and with over ten radio shows hosted by various air personalities under his leadership, Everyday Radio offers something for everyone. The radio station relocated to Harlem, NY during the summer of 2011. The mission of the station remains to provide a platform for the “everyday” person to be heard. In September 2010, Smith launched Everyday the Magazine, a publication for everyday heroes in communities nationwide and abroad. The publication will give readers a chance to read insightful, sometimes painfully honest interviews from real people who have amazing stories and testimonies that can change lives. This November 2011 Smith will release the fragrance “Everyday” for Woman; a nice floral, light and friendly scent created solely and independently distributed by himself. Smith will also collaborate with Theophani Style to produce an Everyday Platinum line of lipstick, gloss, blush and eye shadow for the Theophani Style line.

Adding to his professional credits, Smith has been interviewed and recorded documentary style by TBN’s “The 700 Club”, started a documentary titled “Restoring the Black Family/Men in Transition”, featured in 21-7Magazine.com, Exclusivity Magazine (XI), Allezom Magazine, served as a regular guest on WHCR (Harlem Community Radio), featured on New York’s public access channels, BCAT and MNN, Taking Back Our Community’s WVOF 88.5 FM, and has appeared on Tom Joyner’s 94.3 FM, to name a few.

Jermaine “Jay Everyday” Smith is the father of two boys, and currently resides in Harlem, NY.

5 Reasons I Think People Cheat in Relationships

For most people it seems that as soon as you find that special ONE, it starts raining men/women who are suddenly interested in you.  While you were single and seeking, it seemed you couldn’t catch a mate but now every time you turn around someone wants to get with you.  Lately, I have been wondering what makes a person decide to forsake the ONE who chose them and that they have committed to and step out to explore new territory.

  1. Fear – a lot of people are afraid of commitment but society has told us that we should be in a committed relationship with one person so we have a tendency to self sabotage and engage in destructive behavior as an escape mechanism, it sounds really complex but a lot of times this manifests within your subconscious and you won’t even realize that you are doing it until you come to a self-awareness about who you are and what you want which leads to what are you doing to get what you want and how are you hindering yourself from having what you want
  2. Curious – the grass seems greener on the other side but many people fail to realize that if they spent more time watering and tending to their grass, it could be just as green… you look across the room and see someone who instantly makes your mouth water in a way that your mate hasn’t done in a while but you’re not considering everything within that tasty package… this goes back to the 80/20 rule, you may never find someone who is 100% of what you are looking for but before you allow your curiosity to get the best of your relationship, ask yourself if you are willing to risk what you have at home because that tasty package may not be so yummy on the inside
  3. Overly confident – some people cheat because they don’t believe they will be caught, they think they are so slick that they can have their cake and eat it too… it amuses me when guys say; “I know you have a man but I can be your special friend.”  “Really?  How would you like it if your girl had a special friend?”  It never fails that the guy ends up picking his face up off the ground.  It’s almost as if they never considered what it would be like to have the shoe on the other foot.  Sometimes we think that what we’re offering is so good that no one would leave us despite how foul we behave.
  4. Lack of respect – either you have a lack of respect for yourself (thinking you don’t deserve the true love of ONE person), for your mate (you know they’re not the ONE and don’t mind losing him/her) or for the relationship… regardless, if you don’t see the value in all three then you may have a recipe for failure… before you make a commitment to someone, ask yourself if this is really what you want and if you want it with the person that is offering it to you
  5. History – I am a firm believer that your past can influence your future.  Some people don’t know what it truly means to be in a happy and healthy relationship.  They have never seen one, don’t know anyone who has one and may not even believe that they exist.  They believe that everyone is just as scandalous as they are and have no problem going forth breaking hearts and taking names.  Sounds sad but it happens.  Relationships are hard and until you have healed from past wounds and taken the time to explore what it means to be in a healthy relationship, you are very likely to cheat.

When I was younger, I didn’t think cheating was a big deal.  I grew up around guys that would string along two or three girls and laugh at how gullible these females were to believe that they were the ONE.  I made  a vow to myself that I would never be one of those females so I would string along two or three guys so that I could laugh at how gullible they were to believe that they were the ONE but in the end, I realized that I was only hurting myself.  When you are not able to fully share yourself with ONE person and build a solid relationship with that person then you are cheating yourself out of something special.  Some people have one relationship to fill this need and another relationship to fill a different need but all of those relationships ultimately leave you fragmented.

If you have a tendency to be unfaithful in relationships, consider

  • dating – take some time to get to know the prospects before you decide to commit
  • doing a self-examination – if you say you want a committed relationship but you’re not doing the things to sustain one, take some time to look within and figure out where the disconnect is occurring… one of the above reasons could be contributing your infidelity
  • educating yourself – I’ve heard people question why they should read relationship books and go to relationship seminars but if you don’t know how to do a thing, you need to learn how and relationships are no different
  • talking to someone – you may have some issues in your past that you haven’t gotten over and that will make it difficult for you to trust another person enough to give them all of yourself.  Sometimes you need professional help, you need someone who can help you sort through those issues and find closure before you move forward.  Hurt people hurt people.

There are a million other reasons that people cheat and a billion other ways to not cheat… feel free to leave a comment with your thoughts.

Post Navigation

Follow

Get every new post delivered to your Inbox.

Join 4,086 other followers